A marriage checkup for your whole congregation.
TwoWell helps every couple in your church see what’s strong in their marriage and take one clear next step, in language that honors their faith.
Free for Marriage Checkup Sunday, February 14, 2027.
Your kit includes a slide like this with your church’s own code. Sample only.
Most couples never ask for help until it’s late
You know the couples who are struggling because they finally told you. Many more sit in the pews feeling distant, busy, or stuck, and never say a word. A marriage class reaches a few. A sermon reaches everyone for one morning.
TwoWell gives every couple a private, honest look at their marriage, and a next step they can take this week.
Marriage Checkup Sunday: February 14, 2027
On Valentine’s Sunday, churches across the country will invite their couples to take a free Growth Snapshot together. It takes about five minutes, right from a phone.
Can’t do the 14th? February 7 and February 21 work too.
How it works for your church
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Sign up your church.
It’s free. We send your kit: a two-minute pastor script, a slide with your QR code, a bulletin insert, a poster, and social graphics.
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Invite couples on Sunday.
Show the slide. Couples scan the code and take the Growth Snapshot, each partner on their own phone.
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Couples take the next step at home.
Couples who want the full picture take the Growth Check together, with your church’s code for the partner price.
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See how your church is doing.
Church Partners see a live dashboard once 5 or more couples take part; band shares appear at 10. Without the plan, a free church-wide summary unlocks at 5 couples too. Neither ever shows one couple.
Faith at the center. Room for every couple.
Each partner chooses their own lens. The Faith lens speaks naturally of covenant, prayer, and scripture, and treats intimacy with care and modesty. It never suggests that a hard season means weak faith.
Some of your couples are one believer and one spouse who isn’t sure, or isn’t there. That spouse can choose the Values lens and answer in plain language. Both are measured on the same things, so their results still fit together, and neither feels preached at or left out.
What every couple receives
No scores. No grades. Couples see words like Flourishing, Steady, Growing, and Needs Care, never numbers.
Their gifts first
The things they already do well together.
What they both want more of
Framed as hopes, not failures.
A clear picture
Communication, Emotional Connection, Common Ground (their spiritual life together), and Physical Intimacy.
One next step
Short Practices they can try this week, and a weekly Pulse that shows they’re growing.
Church Partner: $499 a year
Everything your church needs to care for marriages all year. Free while TwoWell is in beta, until February 1, 2027.
25 Growth Checks
Hand out invite codes. Each couple who redeems one gets the full Growth Check, covered by your church. Seats reset each year.
Premarital course included
Engaged couples use the same code for Before We Wed: the premarital check, report, and the 4-hour course.
Mentor access
Your marriage mentors open an engaged couple’s mentor report, only when both partners say yes.
A leader dashboard
Participation, where your couples are as a group, common growth themes, and sermon and small group ideas. Group summaries only.
Facilitator training, 12 seats
Eight short lessons with quizzes and a certificate for up to 12 marriage mentors and small group leaders.
Guide, curriculum, and kit
The printable Facilitator Guide, a 6-week small group curriculum, the Marriage Checkup Sunday kit, and Seeds for group nights.
What a pastor sees
A fictional church, shown exactly the way the dashboard works: only the group, never one couple. Summaries appear once 5 or more couples take part and update in groups of 5, so no one can be singled out.
Cedar Hills Community Church
Church Partner · 25 seats · 17 codes redeemed · Group of 10 couples who finished
Couples joined
Both partners in
Started
Finished
Where your couples are
Communication
Flourishing ~20% · Steady ~30% · Growing ~40% · Needs Care ~10%
Emotional Connection
Flourishing ~30% · Steady ~40% · Growing ~30% · Needs Care ~0%
Common Ground
Flourishing ~40% · Steady ~40% · Growing ~20% · Needs Care ~0%
Shares rounded to the nearest 10%. Physical intimacy is never part of a church summary.
Common growth themes
- Repair (many couples)
- Together Time (several)
- Feeling Heard (several)
Shared strengths
- Commitment (many couples)
- Grace and Forgiveness (several)
Ideas for your pulpit and groups
Many couples want to grow in Repair.
Sermon: Be reconciled (Matthew 5:23-24) · Series: Making Things Right, 3 weeks · Small groups: Curriculum week 4 with the Repair suit of Seeds
Several couples want to grow in Together Time.
Sermon: Sabbath for two (Mark 6:31) · Series: Make Room, 3 weeks · Small groups: Curriculum week 5 with the date-night round of Seeds
What leaders never see: any couple’s answers, bands, or report, or which couple used which code. With fewer than 5 couples, the dashboard says “Not enough couples yet.” Band shares need 10.
Ready your mentors and group leaders
About 70 minutes, online, at their own pace. Each lesson ends with a short quiz; the safety lesson needs every answer right. Pass them all for a TwoWell facilitator certificate. Facilitators guide groups and point couples to help. It is not a counseling credential.
1. Your role: a guide, not a fixer
You host the room and point to good tools. You don’t diagnose or judge.
2. Not therapy: healthy boundaries
Where encouragement ends and counseling begins.
3. When and how to refer
The signs, your referral list, and a warm handoff.
4. Leading a TwoWell group night
A simple 90-minute flow where couples talk privately.
5. Using Seeds and the Library
Set up the conversation, then step back.
6. Handling hard disclosures safely
Abuse, violence, suicide risk, and harm to a child: safety first, every time.
7. Confidentiality and what the church sees
Protecting couples’ trust in the app and in the room.
8. Cultural and faith sensitivity
Room for every tradition, culture, and season of marriage.
Safe to hand your people
Each spouse answers privately, and chooses what to share.
The church never sees any couple’s answers or results.
Group summaries appear only when 5 or more couples take part, so no one can be singled out.
We never sell anyone’s data.
A path for couples who need more than a checkup
Some couples will discover they need real help. TwoWell tells them so, gently, and points them to a counselor. Your kit includes a simple referral list template so you can add the Christian counselors you trust. Every screen has a Get Support link to private support resources.
TwoWell is not counseling and is not a crisis service. It helps couples see clearly and take the next step, including that one.
If someone is in danger, call 911. For crisis support, call or text 988.
Built by a minister and reviewed by a psychologist
TwoWell was created by Wes Lindsey, a licensed minister and marriage and family therapy intern who teaches a marriage class in his own church.
What it costs
| What | Price |
|---|---|
| Church Partner plan25 Growth Checks (or Before We Wed with the premarital course for engaged couples), mentor access, 12 trained team seats, a leader dashboard with group summaries only, and the Facilitator Guide and 6-week curriculum. Free during beta. | $499 a year |
| Marriage Checkup Sunday kit and Growth SnapshotPastor script, slide with your QR code, bulletin insert, poster, and social graphics. | Free |
| Church-wide summary (20+ couples)The strengths your couples share and the areas many want to grow in. Never one couple. | Free |
| Full Growth Check with your church codePaid by the couple, or by your church in packs of 10. | $19 per couple |
| TwoWell Seeds for your ministry54 conversations to plant, for classes, retreats, and small groups. | $19 a box for 10 or more |
Questions pastors ask
Do we need a counselor on staff?
No. TwoWell is built so any pastor or ministry leader can invite couples. The referral list is there for the couples who need more.
What denominations is this for?
The Faith lens is written for Christian couples across traditions. Wording for other faiths will come later, written with leaders from those traditions.
Is it only for married couples?
It works for married and committed couples. The Faith lens uses marriage language.
How long does it take?
The Growth Snapshot takes about five minutes. The full Growth Check takes about 40 minutes per spouse, usually in two sittings at home.
What if only one spouse is willing?
They can take the Snapshot alone and invite their spouse when the time is right. The full Growth Report opens only when both finish.
Will the church see who took part?
No. With the Church Partner plan you see counts in groups of 5 and group summaries once 5 or more couples take part. The free church-wide summary works the same way. Never names, never which couple used a code, never a couple’s results.
What does the Church Partner plan include?
$499 a year: 25 Growth Checks your couples redeem with invite codes, a leader dashboard with group summaries and sermon and small group ideas, facilitator training with a certificate, the Facilitator Guide, and a 6-week small group curriculum. It’s free while TwoWell is in beta.
Is facilitator training counseling training?
No. It prepares marriage mentors and small group leaders to host group nights, keep confidences, handle hard disclosures safely, and refer couples to licensed counselors when they need more.
Can our church earn anything?
Pastors and churches can join our partner program and receive a share of couples’ purchases as a donation to the church, with clear disclosure to your congregation.
Give every couple in your church a next step this Valentine’s.
Free. Your kit arrives by January 25.