Sample only. Fictional couple, fictional clinician. This is what a clinician sees. Numbers stay in the clinician view; the couple sees bands, gifts, and questions in their own report.
Anna & Jordan
Married eleven years, two kids (4 and 7). Anna is active at church; Jordan grew up in church and is unsure now. Work and kids have taken over. They get along and feel more like roommates. Jordan wants more fun; Anna wants to feel heard before solutions. Strong commitment and shared future.
Clinician: Dr. Sam Rivera, LMFT (fictional) · Growth Check 1 completed September 19, 2026
Connection Index and the Us slider
Connection Index
62
Anna 58 · Jordan 67
Us slider
Circle overlap, 0 separate to 100 one circle.
Anna 55 · Jordan 62
Follow-through
Weeks 1 to 4: 9 of 12 Practices done (75%)
Weeks 5 to 8: 10 of 12 Practices done (83%)
Every facet, largest partner gap first
Growth Scores run 0 to 100. A gap of 25 or more is flagged as “experiences this differently,” which the couple sees as a question, never a number.
| Facet | Area | Anna | Jordan | Couple | Gap | Band |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Feeling Heard Differs | Communication | 38 | 69 | 54 | 31 | Growing |
| Feeling Appreciated | Communication | 50 | 58 | 54 | 8 | Growing |
| Safe to Speak | Communication | 67 | 75 | 71 | 8 | Steady |
| Play | Emotional Connection | 42 | 50 | 46 | 8 | Growing |
| Bigger Than Us | Common Ground | 75 | 67 | 71 | 8 | Steady |
| Feeling Desired | Physical Intimacy | 58 | 50 | 54 | 8 | Growing |
| Talking About Sex | Physical Intimacy | 50 | 58 | 54 | 8 | Growing |
| Freedom from Pressure | Physical Intimacy | 67 | 75 | 71 | 8 | Steady |
| Showing Up | Communication | 62 | 69 | 66 | 7 | Steady |
| Gentle Conflict | Communication | 56 | 62 | 59 | 6 | Growing |
| Shared Values | Common Ground | 81 | 75 | 78 | 6 | Steady |
| Sexual Satisfaction | Physical Intimacy | 56 | 50 | 53 | 6 | Growing |
| Feeling Understood | Emotional Connection | 60 | 65 | 62 | 5 | Steady |
| Repair | Communication | 50 | 50 | 50 | 0 | Growing |
| Feeling Loved | Emotional Connection | 75 | 75 | 75 | 0 | Steady |
| Teamwork Under Stress | Emotional Connection | 58 | 58 | 58 | 0 | Growing |
| Room to Be You | Emotional Connection | 67 | 67 | 67 | 0 | Steady |
| Shared Future | Emotional Connection | 83 | 83 | 83 | 0 | Flourishing |
| Respect for Beliefs | Common Ground | 69 | 69 | 69 | 0 | Steady |
| Commitment | Common Ground | 92 | 92 | 92 | 0 | Flourishing |
| Grace and Forgiveness | Common Ground | 75 | 75 | 75 | 0 | Steady |
Suggested by TwoWell, confirmed by the clinician
TwoWell ranks facets by priority and explains the math. The clinician confirms, swaps, or holds them before the couple sees their focus.
Feeling Heard
81 priority
100 - couple score 54 = 46; +15 one partner in Needs Care; +10 partners differ by 25+; +10 top unmet need maps here
Confirmed
Play
64 priority
100 - couple score 46 = 54; +10 top unmet need maps here
Confirmed
Repair
50 priority
100 - couple score 50 = 50
Confirmed
Confirmed by Dr. Sam Rivera, LMFT (fictional) on September 21: Feeling Heard, Play, Repair. No swaps.
| Practice | Facet | Track | Who | Minutes |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Say It Back | Feeling Heard | Care | On your own | 5 |
| New Thing Night | Play | Grow | Together | 45 |
| Notice the Olive Branch | Repair | Grow | On your own | 3 |
Walk into the session ready
Attunement
Attunement 9 of 14 hits for Anna guessing Jordan; 8 of 14 for Jordan guessing Anna (EMO-KNW).
- Ask Anna: when you are upset, what do you want first?
- Ask Jordan: what kind of fun fills you up most right now?
- Ask each other: what is the biggest stress in your week right now?
Profiles
- COM-CYC. Your Cycle: Anna tends to pursue, Jordan tends to withdraw. Intensity moderate.
- COM-STY. Anna thinks out loud; Jordan thinks first, then talks.
- Feeling Loved. Anna feels most loved through undivided time; Jordan through physical affection and help with what he is carrying.
- INT-DSR. Desire profiles differ (one more spontaneous, one more responsive). Both completed Physical Intimacy.
Session starters
- What did each of you notice in the gifts the other wrote?
- Anna, what does it look like when Jordan really hears you? Jordan, what makes that hard on a busy night?
- When did you two last have fun that was not about the kids or the house?
Weekly Pulse, eight weeks
- Connection Index 56 · 62 · 62 · 62 · 68 · 68 · 62 · 68 Holding
- Feeling Heard 56 · 56 · 56 · 62 · 75 · 75 · 75 · 82 Rising
- Play 44 · 50 · 50 · 50 · 50 · 62 · 50 · 62 Rising
- Repair 50 · 50 · 50 · 50 · 56 · 50 · 44 · 50 Dipping
Real Change at Growth Check 2 (October 22): Feeling Heard 54 → 72 (Growing to Steady).
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