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Why you keep having the same fight
Most couples have a few fights on repeat. Why the topic is rarely the real issue, how to spot your loop, and how to step out of it together.
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Most couples have a few fights on repeat. Why the topic is rarely the real issue, how to spot your loop, and how to step out of it together.

Money, sex, in-laws, chores. How to start a hard conversation gently, with a simple script, so it is easier for your partner to listen.

How to know when it is time for couples therapy, what a first session is like, how to find a good fit, and what to do if your partner will not go.

Every couple fights. Five gentle, practical steps for repair: settle first, lead with care, own your part, get curious, and agree on one next step.